An update from me on this.
1) I never got a reply from Mindscape, despite the encouraging reply to the phone call.
(See above, they said they employed a new engineer, who should reply to emails.)
I sent repeated messages, never any reply, problem not solved. Very disappointed.
2) I bought the rabbit from an Ebay shop, who thought Violet would reset it for me.
They had no more success, so I was about to send it back to them for a refund, but...
3) By extensive Googling, and armed only with the name of the original owner, based
on the login refusal at Nabaztag.com, I found a journalist who had written about
the Nabaztag, and had the same name. I found him on Facebook, and contacted
him, and amazingly, he remembered his login (from YEARS ago) and problem fixed.
4) The rabbit became the first of a small of several Nabaztags in our extended family.
Cheers,
Richard.
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